Tuesday, June 29, 2004

Here in this borin resource room of the school library, Weijie & I started chattin, abt the SIP, the ProjectScope, and my realtionships. Practically, it was nothin much to say, juz the normal rountine of wat you would do when u are given a project. But the good part is, when Weijie starts talkin to me abt the relationships stuffs.

Like he was saying, in the long-run, everything dies down, even includin the "everlasting" love for each other. But however, it's the commitment you have for each other that keeps the relationship goin. Yes, i do feel, commitment is a factor, but to me, it doesn't plays a major role. Wellz, like, i'm committed to u emotionally, but i'm not tryin hard enough to make the relationship work out? So is Commitment necessary in this case? In conclusion, we agreed tat Commitment, needs to be back up, with actions. Actions, like doing something really sweet for the other party. These actions adds the thoughtness into the relationship, that would in turn, sparks up the Commitment factor.

For a realtionship to work, it needs both party to clap. AND at the same beat. "Love is all abt sacrficin, givin, and takin", he qouted and we agreed. Like for example, if i give 100% on this relationship, of coz i expected my bf to make some effort in makin the relationship work. Wat if he doesn't give in 100%, will you still contiunin givin in so much? Hmm, not for me i guess. Wellz, but it does explains the Givin and Takin Part though. But Sacrifin? Means givin up ur own space and freedom? He got me confused abt this too. Like he was tellin me, he dun interact with girls after 10pm, and he doesn't go out alone with another girl. He choose not too, and expect his gf to do the same. [Love is great, isit it?] But I was thinkin Duh~. We are supposed to have our own freedom to go out with whoever. It's like abit too exgarratin. For me, i dun wana to be steppin into his own personal space, and of coz, i dun wana anyone to restrict me too. Yes, changes needs to be made for a relationship, but is the changes like tat too much? I do think so.

Wellz, anyway, it's not up to the other parties to comment much on a relationship, as it involves only 2person. But i guess, the rest could help to analysis the situation? Indeed, it feels good to be in love, and being loved. But wat if, u aren't even sure if the person is fallin in, as much as u do? I guess, this is where the Insecurities come in. Sighs.

beautiful memories on. 12:24:00 pm x ........................................